Wednesday 8 December 2010

cheating in relationships

if your husband cheated on you with a man, would you be more upset than if he done it with a woman?

-alot of people i spoke to today said they would be alot more annoyed if their husband/wife were to cheat on them with the same sex. i personally dont think it would be a problem. yes id be annoyed about the cheating aprt, but wether it is a man or a woman wouldnt bother me.

that's just me though, i suppose the idea is that you can compete if a husband cheated with a woman. however if it was a man, your out of the equation.

that was the other interesting point.. what was it you said? we discussed this aswell..
'One possible reason for this is that a crossdressing male is going down the social power scale, while a crossdressing female is going up the social power scale.'



ian & rachel
jan & rachel

1 comment:

  1. yeah, even though she didn't technically cheat as she allowed her to see other people (which were obviously men as shes a straight woman). When jan made the transition from male to female the power was gone in the relationship so she had no control over the situation anymore..
    it's a shame though as most transvestites/transexuals prefer women over men so most of them are lonely as it's hard to find a woman who would accept them for who they are.
    power is also important in a relationship, it's important with anything so when two people find themselves equal it tends not to work..

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